Monday, March 25, 2013

Adieu, USI!







Twelve years na rin ang dumaan nang una akong pumasok sa USI. Hindi pa nga USI ang pangalan nito noon. Dati, Colegio de Sta. Isabel o CSI ang tawag dito. Labingdalawang mahahabang taon na ang dumaan mula noong araw na nag-umpisa akong mangarap. Labingdalawang taon na ang dumaan mula noong napagdesisyunan ng mga magulang kong i-enrol ako sa USI.

Pa'no nga ba sinusukat at High School. Nagsimula tayo sa pagbibilang ng oras habang bagot na bagot tayong naghihintay para sa time. Sunod nating binilang ang mga araw, buwan at quarters at inabangan ang mga sem break, at christmas at summer vacation. Hanggang sa naging taon ang mga ito at ang huli nating inabangan ay ang Graduation. Lahat tayo, excited na matapos na ang madugong tests sa Trigonometry, ang walang kamatayang dula sa Filipino at and kinatatakutang Oral Defense sa English. Hangga't maaari, gusto natin, walang pasok. Pero ngayong tapos na natin ang high school, parang biglang NAKAKAMISS.




Salutatory Speech, Address of Gratitude


It was twelve years ago when most of us first arrived here in USI. Twelve years have long gone by since the day we started dreaming. Twelve long years have already passed since the moment we decided to become a member of a new family.

How do we really measure our stay in high school? In the beginning, we measured by the different class periods. Then we started measuring in days, quarters, semesters and years. We were so excited to finish our schooling that we wanted to rush time. But is time really the right measure to be used? 

We were children when we first entered high school. It seems like only yesterday that we were little freshmen trying to make new friends and looking generally clueless to our older sisters. Then from being clueless freshmen, we became sophisticated Sophomores and thought that we had everything figured out. We had this mentality that the world is ours for the taking. By the time we reached our third year in high school, we were already confident enough that we are ready to take on the challenge to take over the graduating seniors. We were ready to somehow “rule” the school.

And now, here we stand. Our rule as seniors is finally over. We are ready to graduate and move forward in our  lives.  We began high school as children, and now, we are ready to leave as mature people. Each and everyone of us is now a step closer to the destination we founded on our aspirations. We are now closer to the future we visualized back when we were younger. Today, we stand closer to our dreams.

There are a lot of things I would find hard to forget. I would surely miss saying, “Colegio po” to the tricycle driver; “Bulastog po Kuya” to the sweet treats staff; “Sa 15 man pong crinkles” to the canteen personnel; and “Dai pa man po baga 5:30. 5 minutes pa po Kuya” to the guards patrolling the campus. And I can’t help wondering, if even after graaduation, I would still be able to say these words.

In my twelve years here in USI, I have made a lot of promises. I would miss promising my teachers I would pass my project before 5 in the afternoon because I left it. But the truth is, I just forgot that today is the deadline. I would miss promising my English teacher, I would finish one color in SRA by the end of the month. I would miss promising my co-debaters and writers that I would attend the next meeting. I would miss the persons who remained patient with me despite all of these broken promises.

All of us are able to finally finish Basic Education. We worked so hard to get to this point, but we didn’t do this all by ourselves. In the twelve years that we struggled and strived, a lot of people stayed with us. We owe a huge debt of gratitude to them.

To my parents, thank you for being always there for me. Thank you for all the things you have done just to support my education. Thank you for making feel that I am worth all of your sacrifices. You did not mind the hardships life laid out in front of you. You continued to encourage me to reach for my dreams. With you by my side, I knew I would never be alone. Because of you, my dreams and aspirations did not seem too far for me to reach. You were my inspiration. The recognition I am receiving today is the fruit of your hard work and perseverance. I love you, Mama and Papa.

To my classmates, friends and my best friend, I’m sorry if I won’t be able to mention your names in my speech. Even so, I would want you to know that I am truly thankful that I have met all of you. You are all dear to me.  Now we are in a race against time. We are about to end our high school life and whether we like it or not, there is a possibility for us to part. I am going to miss all of you. In the period of time that we have been together, I have felt accepted, respected and loved. I love you so much that there's a part of me that can't let go. It’s really hard for me to say goodbye, but we have to grow and see the world out there. We may not be together, but we would stay in each other's memories forever. I would never forget you. I would never forget those times we laughed at each other’s jokes, those times we went to Mcdo for lunch, those times we teased each other about our crushes, the surprises we prepared for each other, those times we played and fooled around and the times we shared stories about falling in love. I love you, forever and always and I hope that our friendship will never end. I’m lucky to have friends like you. You would always be my roses that I’d never get tired of taking care of. I will never regret the day I said “Hello”, because without that day, I know my life would be incomplete. I would never get tired of repeating that word, even for a million times, knowing that that’s the word that brought you into my life.

To the administrators, thank you for keeping USI a conducive venue for learning. Thank you for maintaining discipline among the students. Thank you for inculcating in us the Vincentian values that would truly help us in our journey outside this institution.

To our teachers, thank you for unselfishly devoting your time, talent and knowledge with us. Yes, we are aware that it is your job to do these things but I believe that what you did for us went beyond the call of duty. You patiently explained to us the lessons we found hard to understand. You chose to stay with us and help us with our problems when you could have stayed at home and rest. You taught us a lot of important facts. You fed both our brains and our hearts.

To the personnel, staff, janitors, and guards, thank you for keeping the university safe and clean. We know that we are careless and tactless sometimes but you remained patient with us. Thank you for devoting your time and effort to making USI a better place for us.

To my dear Alma Mater, thank you for giving me the strength to push through. USI honed my talents and made me feel better about myself. My second home taught me a lot of things; from reading words and counting numbers to the values of patience, initiative and excellence. Thank you for being my home for twelve years.

And above all, I thank God for making all these things possible. I thank God for giving me the ability to think and act. I thank Him for giving me skills and talents and for giving me people to help me develop them. I thank God for being with each of us every step of the way.

As you can see, there is at least a dozen people supporting us in at least a dozen ways. The best way we can show our gratitude is by making the most of every opportunity that we encounter. With these people, we have somehow reached our full potential. Imagine if every individual lived up to his or her own potential. Think about how amazing that would be, and how much better off the world would be.

Let us go back to my question earlier. How do we measure our stay in high school? Is it by the number of years we solved problems on Trigonometry? Is it by the number of years it took us to finish SRA? Or is it by the number of quarters we discussed Balancing Equations? I know, as I look at you today, that I would be measuring in a different way. High school is measured by friendships I have enjoyed in the last four years. I was very close with some of you, casual with some but I know that I would cherish each and every one of you fondly. High school will be measured through the wonderful memories we shared with each other.

After graduation, most of us will go to college, and some will go directly to the work force. We would be taking different paths. Someday, some of us will become nurses, engineers, teachers or investigators. But all of us will always have that voice within us telling us to look back to the memories we had in high school. Today, we approach a new stage of our lives. Today, we are moving on but we are not moving away.

Adieu Seniors!

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Isabelina Debating Circle


Isabelina Debating Circle.


Siguro sa lahat ng club na sinalihan ko, ito ang pinakagusto ko.

February 2011. Grade 8 nang napilit ako ni Paula na sumali sa IDC. Syempre, wala akong kaalam alam sa debate nun. Natakot ako nun eh. Di ko kasi alam kung anong klaseng adventure na naman ang pinasok ko. Pero keri. Sumali kami ni Paula.

"Why did you join IDC?", yan ang itinanong nila sa amin sa unang meeting.

At dahil honest ako, sinabi kong sumali ako dahil sa pamimilit ni Paula.

Summer 2011. Summer Debate Camp. Dito ko naexperience magsalita sa loob ng 7 minutes nang hindi nakasulat nang maayos ang sasabihin. Dito ko nakilala ang mga ex- debaters ng school namin. Yung mga nagtiyagang turuan kami hanggang sa matuto kami.

Somewhere in the 4th Quarter of 2011. First Debate Tournament ko. Quarter finals lang ang inabot namin ng partner ko. Naubos pa nga boses ko eh. Imagine niyo nalang ang isang babaeng talak nang talak pero gasgas ang boses.

Summer 2012. Ayan. SDC ulit. Umabsent ako ng ilang araw. Natatakot kasi ako. Hindi ko alam kung saan o kanino.

School Year 2012-sometime. Training. Hanggang gabi. Nakakapagod pero masaya. Masayang masaya.

At dito na talagang magsisimula ang madrama kong... ano nga ba 'to? Basta.

Hi. Meet my IDC.



Tong mga taong 'to, wala. Di ko alam kung paano ko ieexplain kung gaano sila kaimportante sa buhay ko.

Nung nagsimula kasi ako sa debate, wala akong gana. Di ko pa kasi siguro naappreciate noon ang debate. Pero ngayon, appreciated na appreciated na.

Dahil sa debate, natuto akong magbago. Natuto akong ipaglaban ang anumang sa tingin ko, tama. Natuto akong gumawa ng false matter at mag-imbento ng statistics. Natuto akong umuwi nang gabi dahil sa training. Natutunan ko ang "at the end of the day" at "we see here". Natuto akong mag "Hear" at "Shame". 

Natuto ako sa debate. At hindi lang basta natuto. NATUTO.

Pero, hindi rin naman siguro ako magtatagal sa debate kung hindi dahil sa mga kasama ko. Dahil sakanila, natutunan kong mahalin ang bagay na di ko noon gusto.

Sila kasi ang dahilan kung bakit ko minahal ang debate. Siguro baliktad sakanila. Minahal nila ang IDC dahil sa debate. Pero para saakin, minahal ko ang debate dahil sa IDC.

Dahil sa pagtetraining namin nang magkakasama, nag-evolve ako as a debater. Ang daming nagbago sa buhay ko dahil sa IDC.

Yung achievements ko (kung meron man), bonus na lang 'yon. Dahil ang nakuha ko sa debate na talagang pinahahalagahan ko, ay ang relationships na nabuo ko kasama 'tong mga to.

Konting buwan na lang aalis na kami. Kaya magrecruit kayo ng members kasi mauubos na tayo -_- Joke. Pero gusto kong malaman ninyo na hinding-hindi ako nagsisi, nagsisisi o magsisising nakilala at nakasama ko kayo. Mahal ko kayo, eh! :3 Gayness.



"Be it victory or defeat, our hearts have only one beat. In every test we shall strive. IDC, keep the fire alive!"


One Size Fits All



Nalilito ka na ba? Oo? Hindi? Baka? Ano ba talaga?

Ang dami dami nang tanong ang narinig ko tungkol sa love.

Totoo ba ang love?
Bakit mahirap mainlove?
Masaya ba mainlove?

Madalas akong makipag-away sa isa 'kong kaibigan tungkol sa topic na 'to. Para sakanya kasi, ang love ang pinakamasayang pakiramdam sa mundo. Ang love, angat sa lahat. Basta para sakanya, love transcends all. Feeling ko nga siya ang number one fan ng love eh.

Siguro nga tama siya. Pero siguro rin, mali siya. Meron naman tayong kani-kaniyang pag-tingin sa love eh. Merong malaki ang tiwala, at merong mga tulad ko, na may mga pag-aalinlangan pa.

Ano nga ba ang mga uri ng tao pagdating sa love?

  • The Scientists. Eto yung mga taong may matinding paniniwala na ang love ay isang emosyong dala ng isang chemical reaction na nangyayari sa utak ng tao. 'Yung mga taong matatalinong nagawang gawan ng scientific explanation ang love at siguro sa future, eh makabuo ng scientific procedure para masigurong maiinlove sa'yo ang crush mo.
  • The Generous. Eto yung mga taong nagsasabi na ang love ay pagbibigay nang walang hinihintay na kapalit. Nakakaewan lang 'no? Yaman naman nila sa pagmamahal, nagawa pang mamigay ng libre. Kaya kayo inaabuso eh.
  • The Green. Sila yung mga taong naniniwala na ang love ay isang sexual attraction. Yun lang. Sila ang mga susunod na author ng One Hundred- Fifty Shades of Green.
  • The Hopeless Romantics. Yung mga masyadong nalulong sa pagmamahal. Ang lalim mag-isip at ang lakas ng loob umasang mangyayari ang iniisip. Kasama dito yung mga Generous at Oppressed, sort of. Pati na rin yung wagas maka-crush. Crush pa lang, wagas na maka-emo pag dineadma.
  • The Enchanted. Nakakatawa. Sila yung masyadong nadala ng kwento nina Snow White at Cinderella kaya nagfifeeling fairytale ang buhay nila. Kasama rin dito yung mga nagbabasa sa Wattpad, ang numero unong kaaway ng mga lalaki. Dahil daw kasi dito, lalong tumataas ang expectations ng mga babae. Masyado na kasing na-enchant ng wagas na love stories.
  • The Dictators. Yung mga ginagamit ang love para macontrol ang ibang tao. Lambing dito, lambing doon. Utos dito, utos dun. O di kaya, sumbat dito, sumbat doon para lang makuha ang gusto. "Kung mahal mo talaga ako, gawin mo 'to."
  • The Oppressed. Yung mga kinawawa ng dictators gamit ang love. Handang ibigay lahat para sa minamahal. Kinontrol ng iba at nagpa-control naman ang mga loko. Under pa sila ng Hopeless Romantics.
  • The Emo. Nasaktan daw dahil sa love. Pilit ipinagsisigawan sa mundo na handa siyang magpakamatay, dahil lang may ibang mahal ang mahal niya. Maglalagay ng sobrang kapal na eye liner at mascara at paluluhain ang sarili niya. Tapos pipicture-an ang sariling may itim na luha at ipopost sa lahat ng Social Networking Sites para ipakitang "nasaktan" siya. Parang ewan lang.
  • The Bitter. Yung mga taong either nasaktan, may pinagdaanan, pinagdadaanan o sadyang wala lang talagang nalalaman. Naniniwalang ang pinakamabuting paraan para hindi masaktan, ay magpanggap na wala kang nararamdaman. Pakiyeme epek, bibigay rin naman.

Pwedeng isa ka diyan o di kaya kombinasyon ng iba't ibang uri.


Para saakin (saakin lang naman ah), karamihan sa mga tao ngayon, mali ang iniisip tungkol sa love. Balik tayo dun sa kaibigan kong number one fan ng love. Minsan kaming nagkausap tungkol sa topic na to.



Siya: Ba't ba ang bitter-bitter mo?

Ako: Di naman ako bitter ah. Cynical lang.

S: Yun na rin yun eh. Bakit ka ba kasi ganyan?

A: Ewan. Di kasi ako naniniwala sa "love".

S: Kawawa. Tss. Bakit nga?

A: Kasi maling mali ang pagtingin ng mga tao sa love.

S: Huh?

A: Huh huh ka diyan. Ano ba ang love?

S: Love. Yung lagi kang masaya pag kasama mo siya. Isipin mo palang siya kinikilig ka na.

A: Yan ang rason ko kung bakit di ako naniniwala. Actually naniniwala pero hindi sa "love" ng mga tao ngayon. Masyado niyo kasing minamaliit ang love eh. Para sainyo, kasiyahan lang ang love. "Inlove" ka dahil masaya kang kasama niya, dahil sa atensiyon o kaya thrill na binibigay niya. Porke't ba kahit nasasaktan ka na pero masaya ka pa rin, inlove ka na? Di ba pwedeng baliw ka lang talaga? Naniniwala naman talaga ako sa love eh. Pero mas malalim ang pinapaniwalaan kong love kesa diyan sa kababawang yan.

S: Paresend. Some text missing kasi.


Basta bago matapos ang pag-uusap naming 'yon, alam kong napag-isip ko siya. Sabi niya nga, tama raw ako eh. Di pa raw pala siya naiinlove. Salamat raw at nalinawan siya.

Pero mali yun. Para saakin tama yung mga sinabi ko. Pero tandaang hindi lahat ng tama para sa iba eh, tama na rin para sa'yo. Ang love eh hindi belt na one size fits all. Lahat tayo, may kani-kaniyang pagtingin sa love. At ang pagtingin na yan ay nakabase sa ating mga karanasan.

Sa huli, walang saysay ang pagbabasa mo ng blog entry na to kung naghahanap ka ng love advice. Ikaw ang nakakaalam kung ano ba talaga ang kailangan mo. May sarili kang defintion ng "love" na hinubog ng mga experiences mo. Tandaan:



"Love can never be defined because it is love that defines."


Kung gusto mo lang namang tandaan. Ikaw parin naman ang bahala.


xd

Saturday, December 29, 2012

KRISPY KREME




Bakit ba ang sarap hanapin ang mga bagay na wala tayo?
Bakit ba ang sarap balewalain ang mga bagay na meron tayo?


Ganyan na ba talaga tayo kabobo? Maghahanap ng wala tapos itatapon kung ano ang meron?

Sabi nila, ang mga taong matalino, ginagamit ang utak. Nag-iisip. Pinapakiramdaman ang nakapaligid. Eh pano yung mga taong puso ang ginagamit? Maituturing ba talaga natin silang bobo, ulol o stupid?

O sila talaga ang mga totoong matalino? Mga totoong nakakaramdam ng kasiyahan at pagkabuo?

Ang buhay daw, parang doughnut lang. Hindi sa butas hinahanap ang sarap. Hindi naghahanap sa kakulangan, kundi nilalasahan ang laman.

Ang mga matatalinong tao raw, ginagamit kung ano ang meron sila. Hindi masyadong naghahanap dahil lahat ng bagay, mapapakinabangan nila.

"Kung ano ang nasa'kin, ok na." 

Kuntento na sa kung anong nasakanila. Walang pakialam kung ayaw o gusto. 

Basta meron, Ok na.

Ang saya siguro ng buhay kung ganito tayo lahat, noh? Matalino. Marunong makuntento. Hindi reklamo nang reklamo.

Ok na ok sana.

Kaso nga lang, natuto ang tao.

Natutong maghanap ng kung anong wala s'ya. Natutong ipaglaban ang mga bagay na 'to kahit nasasaktan na. Natutong magsikap kahit walang kasiguruhang may makukuha sa hulihan. Natutong kiligin sa mga taong malayo ang tirahan. Natutong magpacute sa taong napupusuan. Natuto tayong magmahal. Natuto kaya naging bobo.

Pero 'wag mag-alala kung nagmamahal ka. Ok lang na bobo ka. Dahil minsan, ang kabobohan ng tao, ang nakapagbibigay ng kung ano talaga ang gusto nito. Ang nakapagbibigay ng tiwala sa sarili. Nakapagbibigay pag-asa't inspirasyon.

At higit sa lahat, ang nakakabobong pagmamahal ang nakapagpapasaya saatin.

Oo nga. Doughnut ang buhay. Dapat makuntento sa kung anong meron. Di dapat maghanap ng sarap sa butas.

Pero kung iisipin natin, dahil sa mga taong nagmamahal sa doughut at naghanap ng sarap sa butas, nagkaroon ng mga doughnut na buong buo. Kumpleto.




Kaya bakit ipagbabawal ang nawawalang gusto, kung kayang-kaya namang punuan ito?

Bakit kailangan pigilan ang mga taong gusto lang naman makuha yung mga bagay na makakapagpasaya sakanila, lalo't lalo pa kung wala namang natatapakan?

Bakit? Kasi lahat tayo, feeling matalino. Feeling perpekto. Pinapakitang kuntento kahit na 'di naman nakuha ang gusto. 'Yan ang bobo. Pinapaniwala sa kasinungalingan ang sarili at niloloko.

Hay buhay.

Sarap ng doughnut.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Takot daw, oh.



"Walang taong takot magmahal, sadyang takot lang tayong masaktan nang dahil sa pagmamahal.."



Love. Napakaiksing salita, pero may napakalaking epekto sa iba't-ibang uri ng tao. May mga tao na marinig palang ang salitang 'to, interesadong interesado na. Yung tipong 'pag may discussion kayo sa math tapos biglang dumating sa mga crush yung usapan, halos buong klase na ang pwedeng awardan ng "Most Participative". O kaya naman yung tipong wala ka namang pakialam sa pinag-uusapan ng ibang tao, pero 'pag may narinig ka tungkol sa crush mo eh, daig mo pa ang butiking may hinahabol na langaw sa bilis tumakbo.

Siguro karamihan sa atin ang ganyan. Pero meron pa'ring iilan na kahit ilang beses mo nang subukang kausapin tungkol sa love, eh, isa lang ang sinasabi. "Kalokohan lang 'yan."

Sila yung mga bitter. May pinagdaanan, pinagdadaanan o sadyang wala lang talagang nalalaman.

Marami sa mga tao ngayon ang sinasara ang puso sa love. Kasi raw, may mas mga mahalaga pang bagay kesa dyan. Tama naman di'ba? Para sa mga taong desidido sa pag-aaral, mas masaya nga namang maging mayaman, makapagtrabaho at sumuweldo ng malaki kesa makipagdate sa isang tao na makikipagbreak rin sa'yo sa huli. Yun namang mga choosy, mas masaya nga naman talagang maghintay para sa pinakabagay sa'yo kesa magmadali at makasama ang isang taong wala namang kasiguruhang magtatagal sa buhay mo.

Lahat tayo iba-iba ang rason kung bakit di masyadong iniintindi ang mga gan'tong bagay, mga rason kung bakit pinag-iisipan ng mabuti ang usaping ito. Hindi sila takot magmahal, sadyang futuristic lang at palaisip kung ano ang mga pwedeng mangyari kapag may nangyari sa maling lugar, maling oras, at lalong-lalo na, sa maling tao.

Walang taong takot magmahal, sadyang takot lang tayong masaktan nang dahil sa pagmamahal.



Wednesday, August 22, 2012

OPEN LETTER


AN OPEN LETTER TO MY FRIENDS =)
(PROJECT KO PO TO SA ENGLISH. PUBLISH KO LANG PARA MABASA NIYO :D) 





To my dearest friends,

Hello. I do not know how I should start this letter, so I just started it with the same word that started our friendship. I’d end this letter with the same word, so that our friendship would be a cycle, a process that never ends.

It's been a long time since we started hanging out with each other. Several months have passed since we started cherishing each other's presence. It's been so long since we became friends.

Now I would like to take this opportunity to tell you the things I do not have the strength to tell you personally. I would like to tell you that I love you and that you mean a lot to me. I want you to know that no matter how many people I'd be meeting in the future, you would remain important to me. You were always with me when I needed your support. You encouraged me to fight when I was about to lose hope. You were the ones who gave me the reason to believe in my abilities. You inspired me to work and strive harder for me to reach my goals. You were the ones who did not let me down. You were the ones who stayed and loved me for who I am.

I would also like to apologize for the wrong things that I have done. I may have offended you several times- and I accept my faults. I'm sorry if I wasn't able to be the best friend. I may not always be there to celebrate with you during success or to cry with you during failure, but I want you to know that I was always with you, every step of the way. I may not be present in the end, but I was with you when you were struggling. I'm sorry if I wasn't able to completely fulfill my duties as your friend. I am willing to change and make it up to you.

Now we are in a race against time. We are about to end our high school life and whether we like it or not, there is a possibility for us to part. I am going to miss all of you. In the period of time that we have been together, I have felt accepted, respected and loved. I love you so much that there's a part of me that can't let go. It’s really hard for me to say goodbye, but we have to grow and see the world out there. We may not be together, but we would stay in each other's memories forever. 

I would never forget you. I would never forget those times we laughed at each other’s jokes, those times we went to Mcdo for lunch, those times we teased each other about our crushes, the surprises we prepared for each other, those times we played and fooled around and the times we shared stories about falling in love. Just remembering those times causes my tears to fall. What more when time comes that we have to part ways?  I love you, forever and always and I hope that our friendship will never end. I’m lucky to have friends like you. You would always be my roses that I’d never get tired of taking care of. I will never regret the day I said “Hello”, because without that day, I know my life would be incomplete. I would never get tired of repeating that word, even for a million times, knowing that that’s the word that brought you into my life. Time will come that we’d be seeing each other again, and there would only be one word that I would like to say- hello.



With all the love,
Yeye




Saturday, August 18, 2012

Live Happy


"Kapag tayo ay nagmahal, lahat ng bagay may kabuluhan."

Masayang buhay. Simpleng pakinggan, pero parang ang hirap makamtan. Lahat tayo, nangangarap ng magandang buhay. Lahat tayo, may gustong marating at maipagmalaki 'pag dumating ang ating oras.

Marami saatin ngayon ang nawalan na ng pag-asa sa buhay. Marami ang mas pinipiling sumuko at kunin ang sariling buhay kaysa subukang lumaban. Masyado nating sinasarili ang mga problema natin gayong maraming taong nakapaligid saatin na handang tumulong. Sila yung mga taong hindi tayo iiwanan. Mga taong tunay na nagmamahal saatin. Sa buhay, mahalaga ang ating mga kasama. Sila ang magsisilbing gabay at katuwang natin sa mga problemang kakaharapin natin.

Ang kasiyahan ay madaling makamit. Ang lahat ng bagay ay may dalawang mukha. Kailangan lang nating makita ang kagandahan ng isang bagay upang ito ay makapagbigay-saya saatin. Halimbawa, sa kwento ng Titanic, napakalungkot nito dahil sa rami ng taong namatay. Pero kung titignan natin ang nangyari sa paningin ng mga hipon at alimango sa kusina ng barko, ang pangyayaring ito ay may ibinungang maganda.

Simple lang naman ang dapat nating gawin para maging masaya tayo. Hindi naman kailangang kabisado natin ang Fundamental Theorem of Algebra o kaya ang Dewey Decimal Classification para sumaya tayo. Isa lang naman ang dapat nating matutunan, ang magmahal.

Ang pagmamahal ay nakapagdadala ng maraming milagro. Ang mga bitter, nagiging blooming. *YANNIBABES!* Ang mga kalog, natututong magseryoso *GUMI!* Ang mga easy go lucky, nagkakaroon ng direksyon *PRINCE!* Ang mga walang pakialam sa mundo, nagkakaroon ng dahilan para ngumiti araw-araw *YOW!*. Talagang napakalaking kasiyahan ang magmahal. Kapag nagmamahal tayo, lahat ng bagay sa mundo, maganda para saatin. Lahat ng bagay, kailangan. Kapag tayo ay nagmahal, lahat ng bagay may kabuluhan.